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The strongest bonds for a lifetime.

To be loved as a child crea­tes wonderful and lova­ble human beings. The love of a mother, a father, siblings, rela­ti­ves and many others is of imme­a­sura­ble value. True love. By love we do not mean gifts, gestu­res or things like clothes, toys and the like.

By love we do not mean anything that can be bought with money. What we mean by true love is this visi­ble and tangi­ble uncon­di­tio­nal affec­tion. Respectful commu­ni­ca­tion. A child who is loved simply for being who they are deve­lops magi­cal strengths. And an aura that reflects this feeling of being loved. People who are loved move through life differently.

Child­ren who are loved in such an intui­tive and emotio­nal way can grow and deve­lop safely and freely. They are like impres­sive soli­taires, like trees that are able to grow freely in every direc­tion. Nothing holds them back. Meeting a child, its perso­na­lity and charac­ter, all its good and not so good quali­ties with love crea­tes true wonders.

Nature has inven­ted some­thing with a mother’s love and the love of ever­yone invol­ved that is incom­pa­ra­ble in its effect. Even though it cannot be touched, measu­red or weig­hed. Yet it exists. It is the most important and essen­tial foun­da­tion for the healthy deve­lo­p­ment of a child. And because we know this to be true, it is part of a …

nanny’s respon­si­bi­lity to help make exactly this possi­ble for a mother and for ever­yone invol­ved, uncon­di­tio­nal love. Love must never fall short. In all its forms.

In hectic, over­loa­ded and noisy times like these, a nanny crea­tes exactly that. She crea­tes space, time, atten­tion and prio­ri­ties so that child­ren can be loved the way child­ren should be loved. Because streng­thening this bond between two people requi­res focus and undi­vi­ded atten­tion. In modern life this is not always easy, but it is possi­ble and achie­va­ble. Fort­u­na­tely, it is not about quan­tity or dura­tion, but about the much more important emotio­nal quality.

It is better to be fully present for a short moment than to spend a longer period toge­ther while being absent. To be authen­tic, sincere, close and genuine. We are convin­ced that love is what turns little people into good and strong adults. And the role of a nanny is to make exactly this possi­ble, the love between mother and child, father and child, siblings and ever­yone invol­ved. Or as a famous musi­cian once said so fittingly: Let love rule.

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