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My first nanny

Placing childcare in loving hands

The first nanny is a very special nanny—it is the first time parents entrust their child to a stranger. Before giving birth, many women plan to return to work as soon as possible and have their child looked after by a nanny. But when the time comes, mothers find it diffi­cult to let go of their child. That’s why choosing the first nanny should be done with parti­cular care. Before a mother can leave her child with the nanny, there must be a high degree of trust.

The first nanny should there­fore be an experi­enced nanny, one who can reassure the mother that her child is in loving hands, that they have every­thing they need, that she can devote herself to her job and be confi­dent that her child is being well cared for. She should be empathetic and under­stand how a mother feels in this situa­tion. Despite the mother’s absence, the relati­onship between mother and child should be streng­thened so that feelings of guilt do not arise.

Keeping a nanny diary is standard practice for professional nannies.

This keeps parents up to date and means they don’t have to worry about missing out on their child­ren’s develo­p­mental milestones. The nanny diary is a lasting memory for later and also makes it easier for the next nanny to take over daily routines and cherished rituals. A profes­sional nanny does not compete with the mother, but will keep the parents informed about their child’s develo­p­ment and point out any educa­tional issues or deficits at an early stage. Children are very sensi­tive to the relati­onship between their parents and nanny and will develop best in a loving and accep­ting environment.

A reliable and loving nanny can handle jealousy and fears well, acts prudently even in unfore­seen situa­tions, and makes the right decis­ions even in emergen­cies. Our nanny agency has exactly these highly quali­fied and experi­enced nannies in its appli­cant portfolio.

More exten­sive house­hold tasks and cleaning work are not part of a nanny’s duties and are usually covered by a family manager or house­keeper. If you are looking for reliable and quali­fied domestic staff, we can also help you.